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  1. Ambica Gulati
    June 24, 2023 @ 9:40 am

    The world is a queer place, but there is space for everyone. And these books show us that. i would like to read about the transgender principal and the artivist. They have really broken the norms and found their feet in the world. When you see them on the road, begging for money, it’s disheartening to see their condition.

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:38 pm

      Exactly, Ambica. We need more such books.

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  2. Samata
    June 24, 2023 @ 12:21 pm

    Keeping my opinion little different this time. I will not talk about the books you selected as I know you are best in that. To me the lgbtqia community people are no different from us and a part of the human community. Those who call them as 3rd or other category my fight is against them… what gave them the power or audacity to call them different from us. Dont they breath like us, feel emotions like us, have food and witness the beauty of this earth like us….. are they not educated like us….. then what makes them different from us. Why need to celebrate a day specifically for this to establish their presence…. they are equally powerful and strong like us to create their own identity and position and are not dependent on a day dedicated just to say that they exist. I plea come out of this thought process and let us hug them and hold their hand in the journey called ” LIFE” like a friend and family.

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:43 pm

      Samata, I agree with your opinion that they are no different from us and are not dependent on a day dedicated just to say that they exist. In a perfect world, we wouldn’t need to celebrate a pride month or educate with diverse movies and reads. But let alone in India, even in the so-called first-world countries, the LGBTQIA+ community is not accepted. Not just the transgenders but primarily the gays, lesbians, transexuals, and asexuals because it is viewed apparently as a “choice”. Leading to members of the community suffering in silence or worse, ending their lives. Apart from celebrating them, Pride month helps create a safe place, makes them seen, and also helps connect with others who are struggling.

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  3. Preeti Chauhan
    June 24, 2023 @ 7:07 pm

    This is a lovely curation depicting the gender identity issues and queer struggle in India. Personally, I have had a lot of interactions with friends and patients both of who have struggled with accepting their sexuality and body and then facing the world to accept them. I would love to read Equally and ” A Gift of Goddess Lakshmi ” from this list to get a deeper understanding of their lives and challenges.

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:45 pm

      We need more allies for the community. A Gift of Goddess Lakshmi is a great read.

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  4. Harjeet Kaur
    June 25, 2023 @ 11:08 am

    Your range of reading always amazes me, Ritu. I never heard of these books by Indian authors in the LGBTQ community. We Indians forget our ancient epics which also had gays, and we accepted them in society. Somewhere down the line, we missed this, and it has led to so much prejudice.

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    • Kaveri Chhetri
      June 25, 2023 @ 1:28 pm

      As always, what an amazing curation Ritu… most of the books look inspiring and motivational as each of these people would have had to struggle for the most basic of identities… that of the gender. Even if I try putting myself in their place I can’t even remotely imagine how everyday must be a challenge for them. I have picked a couple from your list that I am going to get my hands on.

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      • Ritu
        August 11, 2023 @ 9:49 pm

        Thank you so much, Kaveri 😊. Reading about their experiences gives you goosebumps.

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:48 pm

      Thank you so much, Harjeet. 😊 Completely agree with your thoughts. High time we revisited the epics.

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  5. Madhu Bindra
    June 25, 2023 @ 1:08 pm

    We need more such books that celebrate their lives. I have read We Are Not The Others and it is very hard hitting. I really want to read Manobi’s story.

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:51 pm

      Exactly. We barely have any for a lot of sections of the community.

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  6. Anjali Tripathi
    June 25, 2023 @ 1:39 pm

    Ritu, your reading choices always amaze me. Though I work with them, I have never come across any books written by Indian authors that delve into the LGBTQ community. It’s truly remarkable to see the diverse range of literature you explore.

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:53 pm

      Thank you so much, Anjali 😊 . I have shared more such book recommendations by Indian authors from the LGBTQ community. Do check them out,

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  7. Flavia Cutinho
    June 25, 2023 @ 1:45 pm

    I have alot of respect for their community and I feel such book will help people understand and gain the information they require to know. Good post

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:54 pm

      Thank you, Flavia 😊

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  8. Sivaranjini Anandan
    June 25, 2023 @ 6:52 pm

    Nice collection of books that talks about the struggle of the transgender community. The day when humanity is valued over all the difrerence. The world would be better for people like them too.

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:55 pm

      Absolutely Sivaranjini

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  9. Janaki
    June 25, 2023 @ 9:30 pm

    Loved it. Thank you so much for the recommendations, I’m going to read them.

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:55 pm

      Thank you so much, Janaki 😊 . Do pick them up.

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  10. Vasumathi DS Ponday
    June 25, 2023 @ 10:01 pm

    Amazing complications Ritu. Each one so different yet sounds so inspiring. Some maybe thought provoking even. As usual great recommendations. Keep showcasing your versatility in the topics you choose to read and keep inspiring!

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:56 pm

      Thank you so much for your kind words, Vasumathi 😊

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  11. Shalini R
    June 25, 2023 @ 10:41 pm

    Wow, that’s a brilliant collection of books. I haven’t sadly, read any of them. So, will definitely check them out. Thanks for the recommendation.

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:56 pm

      Thank you, Shalini 😊

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  12. Varsh
    June 25, 2023 @ 11:12 pm

    I haven’t given a serious thought to read about queer issues and thoughts but it’s time that I should add some such books to my TBR. These are some great recommendations. Thanks!

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:57 pm

      Do pick them up, Varsha

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  13. Docdivatraveller
    June 30, 2023 @ 4:18 pm

    We Indians have come a really long way in acceptance. I am all for live and let live. Sometimes my conservative friends get offended with my level of acceptance and non judgement. Will share this list of books with them.

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 9:59 pm

      The community needs its allies. I understand that some people do find it difficult to accept but it is not impossible.

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  14. Aastha
    July 3, 2023 @ 11:34 pm

    I have a rec for you do check out Scarred by Riddhika Jain I really liked her work

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    • Ritu
      August 11, 2023 @ 10:00 pm

      Thanks Aastha

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  15. Noor Anand Chawla
    August 13, 2023 @ 11:20 pm

    I hadn’t heard of any of these – thanks for sharing. It’s a great way to educate myself.

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