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  1. Sonia Dogra
    August 11, 2025 @ 1:58 pm

    Glad to read this post. I am a slow reader and can totally relate to what you’re saying.

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  2. Tarang
    August 20, 2025 @ 4:22 pm

    Thoughtful post. And so relatable. I like to read at my own pace. I have read just 13 books so far (and left 15 books unfinished, so embarrassing and annoying).

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  3. Tomichan Matheikal
    August 22, 2025 @ 9:32 am

    True, sometimes coping with the number of books you want to read in a period can become a source of stress.

    I’m waiting for your reviews on the Blogchatter long list.

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  4. Harshita
    August 22, 2025 @ 1:12 pm

    Loved reading this post. It was as if I was reading my thoughts.
    “for book blogging, it is not about the number of books you read in a year. It is about authenticity, your opinions, and your voice.”
    I think this is so important. To have your own voice when you are writing a review. I read so many reviews that are either saccharine sweet . Too often, people forget that reviews need to be balanced. So many people read books based on what we recommend, and it is our responsibility to be honest.

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  5. Preeti Chauhan
    August 29, 2025 @ 6:41 pm

    Everytime I read a positive and compelling book review I would get the book and keep it till one day the pile looked threatening and engulfing. I had to remind myself that it is O.K. if I cannot read every good book or watch every good film. It is like a hoarding habit which I am now being mindful about.Your posts help me stay mindful and feel okay about not being able to write a book review every day.

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  6. ninu nair
    September 8, 2025 @ 12:37 pm

    I am exactly at the same spot where I feel DNF-ing is fine, earlier I would complete the book no matter what! Now I just need to stop falling for the buzz around a book and keep picking the ones that I am purely interested in. Thanks for this wonderful post!

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  7. Janaki Srinivasan
    September 19, 2025 @ 10:27 pm

    Agree. Reading should be enjoyable, and one should not be under pressure. That spoils the whole fun. I have long exited reading challenges. I choose books, savor them, and enjoy the whole process.

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  8. Mayuri Sharrma
    September 21, 2025 @ 11:07 am

    I am so glad you wrote about this. If it is any consolation, I have only read 2 books this year, so far. These reading challenges took the joy out of reading for me.
    I am glad you are using this year to reset yourself – It’s always the best story we write and others read. More power to you!

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  9. ambica gulati
    September 21, 2025 @ 1:46 pm

    I am in the same space. I got so exhausted with writing A2Z and other challenges that I just took a backseat. I read what I enjoy, didn’t write for almost 3 months! and now, have moved on to things that make the blog worthwhile. I’ve so many posts that I haven’t recirculated that I am now working on those one-by-one at my own pace. Reading and writing has to be quality and not push and shove, only then it is therapeutic.

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  10. Preeti Chauhan
    September 21, 2025 @ 7:47 pm

    Yes there was a time I was getting panic attacks because I was hoarding too many books , adding books as per suggestions in the book clubs having FOMO but I have slowed down. I will only take up buying fresh books once I exhaust my reading list and it is OK to not being able to read all the books that other find fascinating.

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  11. Meetali Kutty
    September 22, 2025 @ 10:52 am

    This is fantastic. Finally, someone admitting that treating reading like a competitive sport can turn a library into a literary anxiety-den. It’s a relief to know we can just enjoy a book without feeling the need to immediately conquer another one right after.

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  12. Chandrika R Krishnan
    September 22, 2025 @ 2:33 pm

    I was sharing the other day that all these lists of books that come out takes the joy of reading what we would want to. I liked my younger reading days way more than the present. Today it is more to show to the world the reader in us rather than enjoy the process. Hence your post stands out to remember the joy to take it slow

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  13. Chandrika R Krishnan
    September 22, 2025 @ 2:36 pm

    Your post reminded me of a conversation in recent times. I enjoyed the reader in me during my younger days. These days trying to keep up with the lists is taking away this simple pleasure of reading . I am glad about this reminder of taking it slow

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  14. Sameeksha
    September 23, 2025 @ 11:37 am

    I can so relate and agree with this blog. It’s a personal space choice and interest. Love the way you highlighted all the points.

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  15. Samata
    September 23, 2025 @ 12:23 pm

    Reading Is Not A Race – The most powerful line of the post. And I am the one who falls in this category who dont race. Do you there are mentors who teach you how to read 200 books faster in some stipulated days if I am not wrong in a month and people are getting trained by them… My god where is reading going… Its not a competition guys …. its literature you need to feel what you read and then write a review if you really wish to. 30 secs reel reviews are also coming these day…. Is this reading and reviewing in real terms?

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  16. Kanchan Singh
    September 24, 2025 @ 12:29 pm

    completely resonate with this! Reading should be about joy, not numbers. Your reminder to savor books, DNF without guilt, and prioritize authenticity over speed is empowering and refreshing.

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  17. Varsh
    September 24, 2025 @ 12:37 pm

    Reading is my comfort zone and escape and I love to do it only for me. That’s one of the reasons I don’t sign up for challenges or write a lot of reviews. I’m happy you’re enjoying taking it slow. I love your recommendations and would be ready for them when you are!

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  18. Pinki Bakshi
    September 24, 2025 @ 2:27 pm

    I have always loved reading at my own pace. Although joing a reading challenge for the first time this year has helped me read regularly but I am planning to return to mood reading next year. Your post highlights the reading race that we see in IG these days. I sometimes wonder how the bookstagrammers keep on posting reviews so quickly, may be that’s their style but glad to read your post!

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  19. Harjeet Kaur
    September 24, 2025 @ 4:15 pm

    Reading this post was a great relief, Ritu. In fact, I sighed out loud. It means that even I have maxed out the books I have read almost all my life and I do not have to compete with anyone. I have reduced social media posts as well. It is getting too toxic for me. The constant numbers and the new ways of creating content. I just cannot keep up the pace anymore. Thank you for making me feel I am normal.

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  20. Ishieta
    September 25, 2025 @ 12:45 am

    I am nodding along as i read this. I too have slowed down and am more conscious about savoring the read than just completing it to add to my goodreads challenge!

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  21. Jeannine
    September 25, 2025 @ 1:00 am

    I truly resonate with your perspective on slowing down and embracing intentional reading. The pressure to read more can be overwhelming, but your approach reminds us that quality and authenticity matter more than numbers. Thank you for sharing this refreshing outlook.

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  22. Docdivatraveller
    September 25, 2025 @ 7:53 am

    It’s always great to take a step back. Although Ritu I thought that you are a voracious reader. Both paces are good because reading should be for the soul and not for reviews or numbers.

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  23. Sindhu
    September 25, 2025 @ 8:24 am

    I can very much relate to this
    I read to unwind myself or get lost in another world. But this has seriously become a rat race

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  24. Tulika
    September 25, 2025 @ 9:14 pm

    Oh I agree wholeheartedly. Numbers have never mattered to me but as I grow older I am learning to be okay with DNFing books, even the highly recommended ones. I am learning to be guided only by what I enjoy – keeping it simple.

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  25. Manali Desai
    October 6, 2025 @ 8:39 pm

    Such a refreshing reminder that reading should be for joy, not tallies. Your slower pace, genuine connection with each book, and letting go of comparison was so well said. Keep doing you

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  26. Varsh
    October 9, 2025 @ 12:21 pm

    Reading slow has its own charm and allows us to live with a character and story for longer. Glad you’re enjoying it..

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